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非男也非女 英國歌手山姆史密斯:請用they稱呼我

26歲英國歌手山姆史密斯(Sam Smith)日前他在IG發文表示,自己性別認同掙扎許久,希望大家以不分性別的「他們」(they)來稱呼他。

綜合外媒報導,山姆史密斯是一名出櫃男同志,後來甚至可以穿女裝公開示人。他日前在IG上寫道,覺得自己非屬二元性別的男或女,因此希望外界以「他們」(They/Them)代替「他」(He/Him)來稱呼自己。

山姆史密斯在IG上寫道:「我已欣然接受自己,無論是內在或外在。我很開心身邊的人都很支持我的決定,但我還是很緊張,但去X的!我過去太在意人們的想法了。」。他懇求外界能和平地面對這件事。

他也透露,小時候因為胖胖身材被同學嘲笑、霸凌,導致他不敢上游泳課;11歲那年還去做了胸部抽脂手術,但過沒多久就恢復原狀了,成為他長大後揮之不去的夢魘。高中時,山姆史密斯決定出櫃,也在當時發現自己身體內「女性部份」和男性一樣多,學生時期曾有一段歲月是穿著女裝、畫濃妝上學。

山姆史密斯也曾自爆,考慮變性手術的想法一直沒斷過,但目前還不是首要目標,希望以「酷兒」(Queer)身份鼓勵LGBT青少年。

對此,網友表示,性別「他們」的定義很廣泛,「我可以說,自己身體裡的摩天輪跟賽車場一樣多嗎?」、「我的性別是戰鬥直升機」;也有網友認為,性別只有男與女,僅有少數的第三性別者,外界把「性別氣質」與性別搞混了,讓簡單的性別邏輯變複雜。(艾以琳/綜合外電報導)

 

在 Instagram 查看這則貼文

 

Today is a good day so here goes. I’ve decided I am changing my pronouns to THEY/THEM ❤ after a lifetime of being at war with my gender I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am, inside and out. I’m so excited and privileged to be surrounded by people that support me in this decision but I’ve been very nervous about announcing this because I care too much about what people think but fuck it! I understand there will be many mistakes and mis gendering but all I ask is you please please try. I hope you can see me like I see myself now. Thank you. P.s. I am at no stage just yet to eloquently speak at length about what it means to be non binary but I can’t wait for the day that I am. So for now I just want to be VISIBLE and open. If you have questions and are wondering what this all means I’ll try my best to explain but I have also tagged below the human beings who are fighting the good fight everyday. These are activists and leaders of the non binary/trans community that have helped me and given me so much clarity and understanding. @tomglitter @munroebergdorf @transnormativity @alokvmenon @katemoross @glamrou @travisalabanza @twyrent @chellaman @jvn @lavernecox @stonewalluk @glaad @humanrightscampaign @mermaidsgender Love you all. I’m scared shitless, but feeling super free right now. Be kind x

Sam Smith(@samsmith)分享的貼文 於 張貼

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